When You’re Hurting…

Quickly Healing The Pain

When you are hurting, do you know how to be especially gentle and tender towards yourself?

You can get through difficult times…know these are temporary.

CAN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OVERCOME INFIDELITY?

Can your relationship after an affair ever truly be resolved with love and passion restored?  When you and your partner’s true intentions and conscious loving actions are demonstrated, hope can turn into lasting love, passion, and fidelity in your relationship. In many cases, when the relationship is toxic with repeated violations of broken promises and … Continue reading CAN YOUR RELATIONSHIP OVERCOME INFIDELITY?

Personal Inventory of Unhealthy Relationships

Answer “YES” or “NO” to the following questions and reconnect with life’s lessons on having healthy, loving and committed relationships. Do you find yourself being attracted to partners who can’t seem to commit to you? Do you want the relationship more than your partner? Do you find that you put more effort into pleasing your … Continue reading Personal Inventory of Unhealthy Relationships

Unhealthy Relationship Patterns That Raise Red Flags

Do you ever feel like you totally missed the class where life was teaching you everything you need to know about making relationships work? Does that also leave you feeling stuck in some unhealthy relationship patterns? The default strategies with which you learn to arm yourself often kick in without you even being aware you … Continue reading Unhealthy Relationship Patterns That Raise Red Flags

Should I Leave or Stay?

“When love hurts” is often the focus when I work with clients in my coaching practice. I hear so many times, “I love her but I’m not in love with her.” Some lose hope that their affection for each other can ever be regained. The passion, the romance, the fun, the excitement are gone. At … Continue reading Should I Leave or Stay?

Should I Stay or Leave? The Ultimate Relationship Conflict

So often during my over 30-year career as a therapist and coach, I am asked the question, “Should I leave or stay?” Individuals and couples are conflicted because: They still care about the other but there is no real love or passion; Feel guilty; Are worried about the effects of separation and divorce on their … Continue reading Should I Stay or Leave? The Ultimate Relationship Conflict

Quickly Healing the Pain

The Pain of Separation-How Long Will It Last?   You’ve just lost your lover, your best friend, your constant companion. You’ve cried yourself to sleep each night since he or she left. You can’t function during the day, feeling as if you’re in a daze, unable to focus on tasks that need to be accomplished. … Continue reading Quickly Healing the Pain